Whenever I hear anyone talking about “should” I cringe.
Maybe it’s just my own prejudice, the connotation of that word for me evoke something? So let’s say that this is my definition of the word ‘should.’
Governing my life through externals.
‘Should’ points toward an ideal which I have failed to achieve. The ideal may in all actuality be a sound one! Even a vital one! But…
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.
It’s like someone criticizing your messy house, so to solve the problem you simply don’t let them in your house anymore. no! Wait! It’s worse!
YOUR SOLUTION IS that YOU don’t go in your house anymore.
Running Down Vimy 